Q: How Can I Make Sex Less Painful The First Time?
Well, the best thing you can do for yourself is to relax. However, being relaxed during sex can only come from the confidence that you are doing the right thing and the assurance that within yourself, you feel like you are truly ready to have sex.
Q: Is it possible to get pregnant the first time?
Oh Yes! It’s possible to be pregnant the very first time you have sex if you are not protected and your partner ejaculates or ‘cums’ directly inside your vagina or even on top of it. Also, pre-cum can carry a bit of sperm in it which makes it possible for pregnancy to occur. Use condoms (male or female) plus another contraceptive method. You can talk to your healthcare provider about protection options.
Q: Is the size of my penis normal?
A lot of guys stress about the size of their penis, but there isn't a normal size for any particular age. The average adult erect (hard) penis is between five and seven inches long. The size of a guy's penis when it's flaccid (soft) doesn't really have anything to do with what it's like when erect. Some penises get much bigger when they become erect, and others stay pretty much the same size.
Q: How long does a man normally last during sex?
There are as many answers to this question as there are men in the world! Some men last one minute, others last 10. It can be different every time you have sex - being tired, under the influence of alcohol, having had sex or masturbated recently - these all can affect how long it takes a man to orgasm.
Q: Are there drugs that can make you last longer and be more virile?
There are pills, creams and drugs that are said to help with lasting longer during sex. Most of these do not work and are likely a waste of your money. If you think you might need help, do talk to a healthcare provider before you start so he/she can help you understand the side effects and decide if the drugs are right for you or not.
Your mind is your most effective ally during sex. Even your sexual organs respond to the stimulation or messages from your mind. So if you can train your mind to hold down the excitement when you are close to cumming, then you already hold the secret to lasting longer.
Q: Should I talk about sex with my parents?
If you feel safe talking with your parents about sex, do it. Sure, it can be a little embarrassing, but it's definitely worth starting the conversation. Many parents and other adults you trust can offer great information and advice about sex, health, and staying safe.
One way to avoid awkwardness is to ask your parents questions about what they think about sex to show them that you respect their opinions. You could start by saying something like, "Dad, one of my friends has slept with a girl. What do you think about that?"
Q: Is it possible to get pregnant through anal sex? For anal sex, where the sperm goes to?
A: Generally, there is no chance of getting pregnancy. But, one can get sexually transmitted infections. The sperms may get out from the anus or spontaneously degraded.
Q: What kind of drug is that which are used for prolonging sex? Is it harmful?
A: These are drugs which take more blood into male sex organ (penis). If these are used for long term, impotency can happen and it is dangerous and fatal for those with underlying heart disease.
Q: What is “Pan Thay, Pan Hnyo”? (Impotency, failure to erect). Why does it happen? Can it occur in girls?
A: It is a condition where a man cannot erect his penis although he has sexual desire. It can be due to genetics, trauma, underlying diseases or psychological problems. It can be due to physiological dysfunction It can also occur in females.
Q: Virginity (boys and girls) can be known only at bachelor night. Sex causes bleeding in both, and also painful, to an extent that they do not want to have sex again next day. Is that true?
A: We cannot say it is 100% true. Some girls may not bleed, although they are virgin. Hymen (membrane of vagina) may have torn during childhood of because of strenuous activities (e.g., cycling, playing sports). Severe pain may be due to other causes.
Q: Can menstrual period of a woman with high hormone level differ from other women?
A: Yes, there may be differences.
Q: How much hormone contains in emergency contraceptives?
A: It depends on the type of medicines. The pill containing two have the hormone quantity which is three to four times higher than that of one daily contraceptive pill. The pill containing only one hormone has hormones which are 30-40 times higher.
Q: Can we buy emergency contraceptives easily? Is it cheap? Can anybody buy it?
A: Anybody can buy emergency contraceptives easily. But only those who understand about the medicine are allowed to sell it.
Q: We heard that emergency contraceptives will no longer effective if a woman uses it frequently. Is that true?
A: Since Ecee2 (emergency contraceptive pills) are produced for emergency use only, it should not be used frequently. It can be harmful if they use it more frequently than recommended since it contains hormones.
Q: We heard that emergency contraceptives will no longer effective if a woman uses it frequently. Is that true?
A: Since Ecee2 (emergency contraceptive pills) are produced for emergency use only, it should not be used frequently. It can be harmful if they use it more frequently than recommended since it contains hormones.
Q: Is it possible to get pregnant, if a man stop sex before ejaculation and ejaculate outside?
A: There is possibility of getting pregnant if pulling out is not in time before ejaculation because the clear fluid produced before ejaculation also contains some spermatozoa.
Q: I heard that a post-partum woman should take care of food items. Why? If that so, how long should she restrict from some food items?
A: In post-partum period, women should eat more nutritious food than normal. Any food can be eaten and no need to avoid if the food is clean, fresh and warm.
Q: Is it important if there is heavier bleeding than normal immediately after giving birth?
A: Yes, it is. It is life-threatening. It is called post-partum haemorrhage.
Q: How many types of post-partum haemorrhage are there?
A: Two types - PPH within 24 hours after childbirth (primary PPH) and PPH after 24 hours (secondary PPH)
Q: What are the causes of primary PPH? What should be done if it happens?
A: The most common cause is the lack of or poor uterine contraction after childbirth. Other causes are infection due to retained plancenta and membranes and tears in the birth canal.
Q: What the causes of secondary PPH. What should be done if it happens?
A: The most common cause is the infection due to retained plancenta and membranes. It is dangerous. The skillful midwives should be consulted immediately.
Q: How the secondary PPH can be prevented?
A: If possible, the baby should be delivered with the help of skilled midwife at health facility or hospital.